im looking to get a definitive list
Good luck with that one. As you can see from the responses, as far as most people are concerned,
pretty much every brand available is considered "safe".
What I recommend, depends on the bike. Some brands of OE are better than anything aftermarket.
Others, not so much. It also depends on how the engine will be used and how often it will be torn
down for maintenance. Most brands and OEs are "safe" to a certain extent. Since you didn't list
any particulars about your bike (size, brand, use etc.), it's hard to offer opinions of what will work
best, or be "safe" as you requested
dogger